Many people try to blame their unhappiness on the ever changing status in their life. The norm is to think or say, when I get this, or when I reach this and that level then I will be happy. Well guess what you can get run over by a bus, and never reach your goals, therefore never having reached true happiness. Your mind is a very powerful tool, it can work with you or against you. When you base your happiness on outside things, or goals, you miss the opportunity of enjoying the now. The now is all we have, and to be happy with who you are right now and with what you have is true bliss.